“The actress thing was the biggest problem, quite funny,” reveals Meghan Markle in immaculate style during the second episode of the Netflix docuseries. harry and meghan. The show, acquired as part of a massive deal with the royal couple, aims to share the truth about the Duke and Duchess of Sussex’s love story, and how vitriol is spread in the media, and also, perhaps, behind closed doors. from the Palace, forced them to flee London to Santa Monica.
But before the real-life couple’s infamous outing, there was the fairytale Hollywood actress eager to make her mark and the British prince eager for direction. Meghan’s ambition and enthusiasm were an instant balm for Harry, who had long felt marginalized and stifled as the “leftover” heir to the throne. As the journalist Tina Brown writes in her royal family account the palace papers“[Harry] he had spent years in a riot of budding emotions and meaningless duty. The contrast of Meghan’s sharp focus with her own confusion was exciting.”
That kind of self-direction was inherently antithetical to the royal family system, where all the electrons move around the monarch’s nucleus. According to harry and meghanthe family was warm and receptive to the Suits star when they first met her, but were wary of her status in Hollywood, both because of what it implied about her individualism and because of her natural tabloid appeal.
“I remember my family meeting her for the first time and being incredibly impressed,” Harry reveals in the second episode. “Some of them didn’t quite know what to do with themselves… but the fact that I was dating an American actress probably clouded their judgment more than anything else at first. ‘Oh, she’s an American actress, this won’t last.’
Meghan affirms this point of view. “There was a great idea of what that looks like from a UK point of view,” she says. “Hollywood and… it was very easy for them to pigeonhole that.”
The future duchess first met the queen at the Royal Lodge, where she wasn’t sure how to curtsy. But despite her deep curtsey, the meeting went off without a hitch. Brown writes of the introduction: “Her Maj of her made conversation easy and reserved judgment for herself. She was just happy that Harry was happy.” Prince William, Harry’s brother, was apparently just as charming during his first meeting with Meghan, although he too was “reserving” the feelings. (Brown writes: “William was nervous about the speed at which this was all going. His view was that if the union became permanent, Meghan would give up everything she knew: her career, which was a big part of her identity, and his life in North America. He knew almost no one in London and had little understanding of British culture”).
Meghan admits it in the second episode of harry and meghan, when he talks about his well-documented status as a “clamp”. She describes meeting William’s wife, Kate Middleton, for the first time at a dinner party in January 2017, when Meghan was wearing ripped jeans and no shoes. She expected a relaxed, unguarded evening, but she found her future in-laws to be just as courteous when No in front of the cameras. “Like, I was a hugger, I’ve always been a hugger,” Meghan says in the docuseries. “I didn’t realize that’s really jarring for a lot of Brits. I guess I began to understand very quickly that the formality on the outside was carried out on the inside. That there is a way of being for the future. And then you close the door and you’re like, ‘Oh, great. Okay, we can relax now. But that formality carries over to both sides. And that surprised me.”
What Meghan struggled to reconcile, like Princess Diana before her, was how the Firm could be both a family and an institution, and particularly one so entrenched in its ancient ways. “What Palace staff saw as her deliberate blindness to institutional culture was a direct clash with Meghan’s worldview,” Brown writes. But Prince Harry believes it was more than just a collision of backgrounds and ambitions. In harry and meghanShe blames the family implosion, at least in part, on her family’s unconscious prejudices, both around her status as a Hollywood actress Y his status as a mixed-race American.
In Episode 3, Harry says, “In this family, sometimes, you know, you’re part of the problem or part of the solution. And there is a huge level of unconscious bias. The thing about unconscious bias is that it’s not really anyone’s fault. But once it has been pointed out or identified within yourself, you need to correct it. it’s education, it’s awareness. And it’s a constant work in progress for everyone, including me, you know.”
Lauren Puckett-Pope is an Associate Editor at ELLE, where she covers film, television, books, and fashion.
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